Dearest Rosie, I always remember your mum describing you as an enabler and that is what springs immediately to mind most about you – your ability to empathise and put yourselves in others’ shoes even though you might not have actually experienced what they were going through, but instinctively knew what to say or do to make things better. If only I had that half your skill now to help those you have left behind! Thank you for being a wonderful friend, cards and drinking partner, godmother to our boys and all-round special person. God Bless.